Five kinky ways to spice your sex life!

Be it a one-night stand, fling or a full blown relationship, everyone wants the sex to be earth shattering, and we get why! Let’s face it; the glue to holding two people together is rocking each other’s worlds all night, every night. But, as is the case with physical compatibility, the romance starts to get all too boring and predictable after a while.And nobody wants grandma sex, no? So what do you do when you are engaging in your regular sex routine – you know, missionary, 69 and the whole charade – and you want a sexual arrangement where no two days are the same? You make a solid effort and enhance your sex life through the below ways (thank us later!):

One of the easiest ways to excite someone is to send them raunchy texts and maybe, only if you are comfortable and trust your partner, send some teasing photos and nudies too! Talk dirty, tell them what you are going to do to them (of course, sexually!) when you meet next. The anticipation is arousing, and so are the racy snaps.

Move over watching porn together. Why? Because it’s 2021 already! The sex toys market is booming and you really need to introduce them to your partners unless you want to lie on bed like a dead meat. Elevating the sexual experience is a hard task and so, go ahead and introduce sex toys into your lives. Leather handcuffs, furry handcuffs, harnesses, pumps and what not!


To really get the kink right in kinky, one must be a hot nurse today and a sexy firefighter tomorrow. Meaning? Don’t be you every single time you hook up; expand your horizon and be someone else. Someone you and your partner fancy. Someone with a big personality from the entertainment. Or it could be someone who bowls you over with his/her boldness. The mere thought of role play gets people excited, imagine what it could do to your sex life?!

Gone are the days when you wait one whole day before you see your partner at night and fool around. The element of surprise is also a welcome change – sexual or otherwise. Show up at their work space and make out in the basement or at a nearby café (Ashton Kutcher has done it in ‘Friends With Benefits’ and it has worked for him). The idea is to keep it short and do it in new, unusual places (don’t go anywhere where the cops can catch you. It’s no fun)

Whether you have been together for a short while or they are just a booty call to you, it is always a nice idea to shower them with gifts and compliments. Buy them what they like and see how that sweet gesture lights up their faces. After all, you need to be loving and caring towards someone who shares an intimate relationship with you. It’s the bare minimum and everyone deserves to be treated that way.